Wednesday, April 20, 2016

Seeing Christ in Crisis


We woke up to the distant sound of thunder followed by cracks of lightning. For the next 10-12 hours we endured 9 emergency alerts, 3 tornado warnings, hail hitting our windows in the dark, huge amounts of rain bombarding the streets and a power outage that lasted 10 hours. The rain and wind were so ferocious that at one time, I watched the rain go sideways.  The trash can that was put out the night before, was in someone else’s yard, not sure who put it upright and brought it back to us in the early morning hours. (Thank you)  
 

The result:  Houston has experienced historic flooding.  Lives have been lost, property loss and hearts overwhelmed.  We have experienced these disasters before, but this one felt weird, almost unexpected.  Yes, we all heard that there would be severe thunderstorms and rain, chance of flooding….But I think when we get in the groove of life, we just expect each week to look a little like the last.   BUT….
This world is aching; it is waiting for all of this to be over.  Sin is a funny thing, it affects everything- our lives, our hearts… our world.  The earthquakes and droughts, tornados and extreme snow, heat, floods, all of this is a result of a hurting world.  This world is waiting for this time after the “fall” to be over.
CREATION IS GROANING!
For we know that the whole creation has been groaning together in the pains of childbirth until now. And not only the creation, but we ourselves, who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, groan inwardly as we wait eagerly for adoption as sons, the redemption of our bodies. For in this hope we were saved. Now hope that is seen is not hope. For who hopes for what he sees? But if we hope for what we do not see, we wait for it with patience.            Romans 8:22-25
 
 
I was talking to someone today as I got ready to combat the streets to get to work.  They told me when the rain first started; they began to pray because God has answered them before when it came to weather.  But God told him “I’m not going to answer this time, they need this”. 
Most of us could not imagine a God who says He loves us, not answering.  We can’t imagine that He would just sit on His throne and ALLOW us to go through this, again!   While talking to this man, his take away was that we become better versions of ourselves when we get out of ourselves.  When we see a crisis, we tend to become answers to problems, instead of creating them.  The images of community helping community will burn in our minds for a while.  (That is ….until we get past this and forget, then we are subject to start treating each other like enemies again.)   But somehow in the midst of tragedies, God can remind us that we actually care about these same people we talk about.  We actually have more in common than we have different.  We want to be loved, accepted, encouraged, and taken care of.  All of us want this.
I love the feeling of true community, especially when my family has changed so over the last few years.  My mom is gone, my stepfather gone, I'm single again, my kids are growing up and my dog is OLD!  But God has soooo many great people around… good people who I can care for and allow them to care for me.  That is how we can see Christ in Our Crisis… He is seen in our love for one another. 
 
 
                                                                                                                                                                                                        So this storm will pass.  We will recover, we will note the day it happened.  News channels will remind us next year and show us the images again.  But hopefully, we will remember more the images of community, people reaching out to each other, neighbors who have never spoken, checking on each other.  Remember those who allowed someone to charge their phone, or when someone lit the BBQ grill with everyone in the neighborhood’s meat that was thawing due to power outages.  Sharing and loving. 
That is how Christ is seen in Crisis!  The real question is:  Can He be seen through you?

Wednesday, April 6, 2016

Are You a Knock Off? A Shopper's Guide to Dating!


Knock Offs!


My book, “A Shopper’s Guide to Dating” is not just about shopping, and dating.  In fact, it really stems from knowing and understanding your purpose.  If you don’t know who you are or why you are here, you are subject to allowing people and things in your life that minimizes the gift of YOU.   Knowing who you are allows you to not waste time seeking and dating people that don’t fit you, nor you them.  The book calls those trying to be something or someone else "Knock Offs".  Some people are unintentional, they just APPEAR to be something they are not, that is why time is needed to understand who someone is.  Those who intentionally try to change who they are to be and appear different, are the ones we are talking about today.  

In the book, we define ‘A knock off’ as  - a copy or imitation of someone or something popular; an item intended to look like something it is not.

Normally a knock off will never imitate something that is not popular or viewed as less valuable.  It only works as a knock off if the item being imitated seems to be of greater value.  Trying to be someone we are not is only tempting when we think less of ourselves and more of others.  Since everyone has value, it is daunting to try to compare us to merchandise, but humor me for a moment.  

The Shoe


If you are purposed to be an athletic shoe, you can work to be the best athletic shoe you can be!  Specially designed and crafted to help anyone who wears you and bring comfort and style at the same time.  But what would be rather silly, is for you –an athletic shoe to try to be a 5 inch beaded pump. NO matter how nice it looks, how much someone loves it and how much it costs, that is not what you were meant to be!  So why try to be something you are not? 

We do that when we don’t know the value of who we already are.  Yes, as an athletic shoe, I may never be worn to the Grammy’s, I may never walk the red carpets of life, but if I focus on who I am, I can still be valuable and benefit people where I am. I can be the shoe of choice in the Olympics; I can help a wounded soldier in the worst time of his life.   I can simply bring comfort and protection to someone who is working on being a better version of themselves.  I still have value, great value.

Being a Knock Off looks like trying to fit in where we don’t need to be.  Trying to connect with people that we think are more valuable than we are!  NO ONE is more valuable than you.  And you are no more valuable than anyone else!   The bible tells us that all members are needed in the body, no matter how small they are, they hold a function and purpose.  The arm can’t say that it does not need the leg, nor the ear says that it does not need the tongue.  We are all part of this great body, and all are valuable.

Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. said it like this:
“What I’m saying to you this morning, my friends, even if it falls your lot to be a street sweeper, go on out and sweep streets like Michelangelo painted pictures; sweep streets like Handel and Beethoven composed music; sweep streets like Shakespeare wrote poetry; (Go ahead) sweep streets so well that all the host of heaven and earth will have to pause and say, “Here lived a great street sweeper who swept his job well.”  If you can’t be a pine on the top of a hill, be a scrub in the valley—but be the best little scrub on the side of the hill, be a bush if you can’t be a tree. If you can’t be a highway just be a trail if you can’t be the sun be a star; It isn’t by size that you win or fail— be the best of whatever you are. And when you do this, when you do this, you’ve mastered the length of life.”

Bottom line:  When you look for someone to spend your life with, you should know who you are before you begin adding and taking away from who you are.  Grant others the same benefit of being who they are.
 
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